Time for change

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Allison
(@jayne-161)
Posts: 19
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Aww thank you Stace ..we will get through this together for sure..I hate even the thought of depositing into those stupid sites ...no more xx

 
Posted : 18th July 2021 8:00 pm
(@jumble)
Posts: 40
 

Hi Jayne

To answer your question I’m not gamble free. I know it’s ridiculous but if there is a chance I don’t have to break my wife’s heart I’ll take it.

It’s actually speeding up the process to come clean though so it’s only a matter of days.

I wish you the very best with your dilemma but Andy Williams is correct in that the sooner the better.

J

 
Posted : 18th July 2021 9:45 pm
(@matt997)
Posts: 28
 

Hey Jayne!

I'm happy to hear you're thinking of coming clean to your partner next week! It was the hardest part of my personal journey so far but also the most rewarding.

I think for you to truly be able to move forward, you need to get it off your conscience. Explain and be honest with your partner and let him know you're working through it on here and mention about your 1 to 1 session you had. 

I found that talking about GamCare showed I was serious about beating the addiction.

Were all here for you ❤

Matt

 
Posted : 18th July 2021 11:33 pm
Allison
(@jayne-161)
Posts: 19
Topic starter
 

Thanks Matt and I know your right. I have to do it soon as I feel like crumbling with stress and pressure. Would you far easier to run away and hide if that makes sense.

And we all here for you too...keep strong and well done xx

 
Posted : 19th July 2021 7:29 am
Allison
(@jayne-161)
Posts: 19
Topic starter
 

Its the hardest thing isn't J. However has to be done and just hope he takes it OK...wish me luck and I will keep you posted.

XX

 
Posted : 19th July 2021 7:31 am
(@jumble)
Posts: 40
 

Good Luck Jayne!

J x

 
Posted : 19th July 2021 8:56 am
(@matt997)
Posts: 28
 

Hey Jayne,

Logged onto the chat tonight but didnt see you there, hope everything went ok with you and your partner!

Stay strong and whatever happens were here for you! 

Matt

 
Posted : 25th July 2021 11:49 pm
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