Dear Jewel and BBeynon
Our apologies for not replying to your posts and for locking this topic - this thread doesn't get checked very often as it was meant to inform users about the friends and family section and its purpose.
If you are still reading, there is lots of help and advice available to you on this forum, and also in other places such as our free helpline which you can access on 0808 802 0133 or via our online chat service at www.gamcare.org.uk/netline.
Please do post again in the friends and family section or contact us - it sounds like you have both reached a point where you arent sure what to do and you need some advice which is available here.
Sorry again and we hope you manage to get some help