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ODAAT

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10.11.2014

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16-03-2019 What’s the point of a new diary?  You’ve had all the advice there is to give on your other one.…
16-03-2019 Thank you for sharing Stace.   You have been through so much & there are no words that can fill…
16-03-2019 I often get caught out when I notice those feelings & even though I know sometimes there’s not…
15-03-2019 Once you get some recovery under your belt ALN you will understand what I have written & see tha…
14-03-2019 Hi Kate, can’t believe I haven’t seen your diary sooner...Another huge shout out from a supposed…
14-03-2019 Hi Lou, so sorry to hear your pain & I really do empathise.  My mother is also an amazing woman…
14-03-2019 [quote=ALN]I have to admit I've got quite bitter today with the negative comments thrown in my direc…
11-03-2019 Hi Unhappy, what makes you so sure you don’t have the typical characteristics for CoDA?  On Sunda…
11-03-2019 It’s a famous AA one boys...Few minutes of your time that may help you with the concept of those c…
02-03-2019 Stopping gambling is easy, I stopped loads of times...Staying stopped, not so much!   I’m all for…
22-02-2019 Addiction has a habit of making its slaves feel worthless but regardless of what you think you have …
20-02-2019 WOW...How easy to see problems when someone else holds up a mirror by articulating them!  Thank-you…
20-02-2019 Sending strength to you & all around you in these difficult times my friend x …
17-02-2019 I’m all in as always too...Thanks for opening up! I was still gambling, heavily @ 41 & 5 years…
17-02-2019 Seems odd that you are on Step 6 yet so obsessed about page 7 & the advice to newcomers in the O…
17-02-2019 Does an alcoholic that partakes in an alcohol free beer have to change their date? Alcohol doesn’t…
17-02-2019 I handed over all of my personal cards, passwords, account details etc & only used a joint credi…
17-02-2019 I’m pretty much with both of you on this one... I stopped playing fruit machines in August 2014, c…
15-02-2019 I was all in as a 3 year old sitting cross legged on the floor with playing cards...The act of gambl…
13-02-2019 You pay them back in kindness...Finances are only this important in our heads!   The past is just t…
12-02-2019 OMG Guys, I needed to hear all of that today...Thank you all! Don’t worry about the crying Pops, i…
12-02-2019 Goodness me I’m pathetic... I’ve just burst into tears & come to bed with a hot water bottle…
12-02-2019 Aaarrrggghhhh to Mad-Max’s post huh (headbang a walk several times emoji)...I flagged it & wro…
12-02-2019 CoDA is Co-Dependants anonymous. …
11-02-2019 Hi SomethingNew, welcome to the forum & finding the strength to tell your story :-) Self exclusi…
10-02-2019 Yup, couldn’t agree more...Funny how I struggle to hate these days when it came so easy to me befo…
10-02-2019 Hi Lya, welcome to the site & well done for actually finding your way here, it takes guts to see…
10-02-2019 I’d probably be the last person to figure it out if he does...Everytime Deano comes back I have to…
10-02-2019 So good to hear from you Pops x …
10-02-2019 Hey Stace, no apology please! I hope you are doing ok my friend...Don’t reply for me, only do so i…
10-02-2019 LOL Bal...What is it with amphibians on these pages?!? Good stuff on spending time with young bal &a…
10-02-2019 Hi Kate, I had the cash withdrawal facility removed from my Barclays credit card & the limit mas…
10-02-2019 Other than here, what support do you have Stace? This post kinda stopped my heart beating :-(  I lo…
10-02-2019 I’m with JD’s 1st on this one...You made no mention of your gambling past in the opening just gl…
09-02-2019 I did write this in relation to the “How do you replace that buzz?” thread but it’s not in the…
08-02-2019 Be kind yo yourself...Yesterday may not have been recovery but it was abstaining & for us, that …
08-02-2019 Congratulations on your 3 years Phil & although we haven’t always seen eye to eye in the past …
08-02-2019 Monday, didn’t gamble, felt ok Tuesday, didn’t gamble, felt rubbish, went swimming training...So…
07-02-2019 [quote=duncanmac] Funny because I believe that 12 stepping is akin to carrying one of those drums li…
07-02-2019 I’m not going to repost the opening gambit but can you please explain salamander how many counsell…
07-02-2019 I see you salamander, stomping round the site spreading poison...Just because you are not ready &amp…
06-02-2019 All the time I was skipping along along, “Oops, stepped in dog doo, thanks Higher Power!” styley…
06-02-2019 [quote=nipped] [quote=ODAAT] I have to disagree with you there nipped & salamander... Society do…
06-02-2019 I have to disagree with you there nipped & salamander... Society doesn’t step in to stop peopl…
04-02-2019 Different or pointless? This addiction is hard enough to bring under control with allowing yourself …
03-02-2019 I got them from your diary my friend :-) Miracles happen everyday when I don't gamble...& perhap…
03-02-2019 Hey Mask, sorry to see you back under such painful circumstances for yourself...Please don't think y…
03-02-2019 It can get very confusing in there if you enter in the middle of a conversation...Try not to take an…
03-02-2019 New diaries, new payment plans, best intentions are all worthless when it comes to addiction...Not s…
03-02-2019 Don't Give Up - Peter Gabriel, Kate Bush …

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30-12-2014 My Diary of Shame