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Merry go round

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08.06.2017

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Wife of a compulsive gambler

Date Post
20-11-2018 Hi confused the best way is to get support for yourself. Once your behaviour changes his hopefully w…
20-11-2018 https://debtcamel.co.uk/payday-loan-refunds/comment-page-119/#comment-28... …
20-11-2018 There's a forum link on 'Matt's diary Help!' …
19-11-2018 Hi Gary h if your struggling to pay call stepchange. Get your blocks in place, hand over finances, s…
18-11-2018 Unfortunately some gamblers don't listen and continue to gamble because they think they will win it …
18-11-2018 Hi kittiekat, I'm glad something helped. Find a gamanon meeting if you want  real life support from…
18-11-2018 Hi panda-star. If you can, hang on to the house. Stepchange help with debt. All loans and debt get p…
17-11-2018 Hi ALN, we are not meant to judge. My cg watches sport, a lot! He would gamble on anything, sport on…
17-11-2018 Hi nana, I'm sorry you're here, it's terrible to read how desperate your son is. Call gamcare, try a…
17-11-2018 Hi I'm the wife of a compulsive gambler. I think that gambling is playing a huge part of young peopl…
14-11-2018 Unfortunately there are many ways to withdraw money without a card. In my experience remembering num…
14-11-2018 Hi kittiekat the first thing to do is secure finances. Block his access. Cancel those cards. His deb…
14-11-2018 Hi autumn he's being very honest. What is your worry? Is he actively gambling? …
14-11-2018 When they are consumed by addiction they see nothing. It's a habit, a place to go to hide. It's no r…
13-11-2018 Hi mum2boys. How sad to read your story. It sounds like he has been gambling for many years. You've …
13-11-2018 Hi solo, you are right in many things. Only he can stop and using equity to pay debts is a mistake. …
12-11-2018 Hi Amanda taking control of money is for you. You have his debt in your name, you need his money to …
10-11-2018 Agree …
10-11-2018 Hi shadow your story is similar to many others on here who are married to compulsive gamblers for ye…
04-11-2018 Hi rustypat it's good you are seeking support. Sometimes if you get into trouble for fraud you find …
03-11-2018 its about choice. You choose to gamble.  …
02-11-2018 Hi AAMM there is a gamanon website with info. There maybe other meetings nearer, alanon or coda. The…
02-11-2018 Hi AAMM it's a great big shock initially. You thinking his mother should have told you, him begging …
02-11-2018 Hi the key to living with a cg is don't believe a word until you see change or proof. GA is the best…
01-11-2018 Hi deer me you can't make him go to GA but you can encourage him to go back. Gamstop is something ga…
01-11-2018 Hi PMM. It sounds like your partner has been gambling a very long time. He's obviously sold all poss…
31-10-2018 Hi Jen, Thankyou for replying. In my own humble opinion I don't think compulsive gamblers should be …
29-10-2018 Hi Jen   " I really really don't want to find myself still here in many years, writing new posts, …
26-10-2018 Hi trapped! Yes that's how we all feel initially. If you have savings do not give them to him. If he…
26-10-2018 I'm surprised no one has responded to this post. The person who needs help is your wife. Gambling no…
26-10-2018 Hi D84 stepchange might have good advice for getting your money back. They aren't just for help with…
23-10-2018 Hi my husband used to 'trade' stocks and shares, position on Ftse, shares in football clubs etc. The…
22-10-2018 Hi sapphira gambling is providing you with an escape and as you have recognised at a cost to yoursel…
21-10-2018 Hi KA2306 this is most definitely not your fault. Your boyfriend is a compulsive gambler, he will al…
20-10-2018 Hi Amandamac I have control of all bank accounts. Cash and receipt always. He has no credit cards. T…
20-10-2018 Hi walshe123 firstly don't bet at all. That first bet just leads to another. Confide in someone at u…
20-10-2018 Hi Amanda I'm the wife of a compulsive gambler too. The best place for support and learning how to l…
18-10-2018 Hi worried mum you need to find a gamanon meeting. GA will help your son if he's wanting to stop. Yo…
18-10-2018 Hi anony mous you don't have to be without him, you just have to change your reaction to him. You sh…
17-10-2018 Hi you can't change a gambler, you can't stop a gambler. The only thing you can do is change you. Ga…
17-10-2018 Hi addict65 you have to be completely honest. The money's gone. Gamstop is the new way to block onli…
14-10-2018 Hi tommy try and focus on today. My husband had huge debts which he paid, including remortgage. I kn…
14-10-2018 Hi Sarah if your partner needs help and support he should find a gamanon meeting. They offer help, s…
14-10-2018 Hi madoreo007 you have recognised your problem which is great. Now you have to make some changes. Th…
12-10-2018 Hi crazy cat lady. No one deserves to be threatened. You have to ask yourself why you are willing to…
10-10-2018 I think it's really tough to stop when you see little change. But remember gambling brought nothing …
10-10-2018 Tommy is your girlfriend seeking help for herself? Unfortunately when we first find out we don't und…
10-10-2018 Hi Julie find a gamanon meeting near you, it's worth travelling to if you can. There are many parent…
10-10-2018 We have all experienced the lies. Trust? I was more interested in sorting the problem, finding help …
08-10-2018 Hi edameb as CW says you need to separate yourself. It's not your responsibility to get him home. Wh…

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Date Threads
20-06-2018 Advertising of gambling
11-05-2018 Alert a moderator
03-11-2017 New topic
16-10-2017 Research please help
27-08-2017 Monte Carlo or bust?
25-08-2017 Where do I belong
09-06-2017 Help to get strong