Yes positivity goes a long way theres a thought that is called "the secret" where if you want something enough and you think of yourself having it enough, the thoughts prepell you to it. If you want something like a car for example create a picture board with a photo of the car and spend an hour a day thinking you have that car, all the thoughts you will have in that car etc. Then say a time frame you will have it in. Then the forces on earth will prepell you towards that car. I created a diary on here called the secret a number of years ago with my wants and ill go and have a look now if I can find it to see if I have achieved them a few years later.
"ask, perceive and receive"
I asked for a job with progression, to live smoke free and a holiday to one of my bucket list every year.
Also on a side note I wanted a soundbad and some shelves for my dvds.
Now ive succeeded at not smoking since 2016 horray.
I haven't been on holiday boo.
I also wouldn't say ive got a job with progression boo.
I did get that soundbar and shelves.
Oh well 2 out of four isn't bad fifty percent
I did read the secret and much like the bible, it has been redone several times by good and some not so good people. I can't say I think the new version is more than American garbage but there are some things that should be looked at. The original secret version from the fifties can be found on youtube I have added it here as well
1. 95% of your mind is on subconscious autopilot and 5% is your conscious mind this means you slip in and out of autopilot every day of the week.
2. If you want to mess with the subconscious there are 3 ways of doing that. Positive affirmations. hypnosis and Psych-K Muscle testing (Don't know much about the last one)
3. Even if you did not get all the toys you wished for you still got some positive thinking out of it I hope, so in a sense, it is still a win.
It is easy to be miserable and depressed. We are naturally programmed to look for danger in our conscious brain so we can hide defend or attack. All this stress and worry is naturally also programmed in your subconscious. This mean that you need to make an effort if you want positive. You have to work on it. That is why the biggest egos on the planet also are some of the most successful. They don't do anything else.
If it is not you that is ok. I don't judge.
But I still believe that we become what we think about.