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(@chris-2808)
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Recently just joined looking for help almost lost everything including wife and family with online gambling took me a good while before I admitted to myself I had a problem and even longer to tell all that I had been doing to my wife and family 

 
Posted : 22nd June 2022 8:52 pm
Si_mon
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Hello mate, well done on coming clean to those close to you, it's not easy. If you haven't already done so then I'd recommend putting some blocks in place such as Gamstop, Gamban, blocks through the bank. I personally did Gamstop and it stopped me in my tracks (over 4 years ago). All the best pal.

 
Posted : 22nd June 2022 11:51 pm
gadaveuk
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Hi

The recovery rogram will help you help yyour self become healthier and healthier.

On your journey you will be able to heal your paisn and reduce your fears. 

Being honest to your self and admitted to your self you have a problem that is a big step well done.

Being honest to your family is a sign of strength even though it might not feel like it at this time.

Reducing your fears helps your recovery.

Reducing your fears helps yoiur trust grow.

It was very fear filled and painful being honest to my family.

Yet the truth was they knew all was not well with me being so with drawn from my family.

You are very welcome here and even at the meetings.

Going to the meetings you talk when you are ready to do so.

Share your journey with us as much as you can.

Sticking with recovery we become less of a loner and our fears reduce.

Love and peace to everyone

Dave L

AKA Dave of Beckenham UK

 

 

 

Recently just joined looking for help almost lost everything including wife and family with online gambling took me a good while before I admitted to myself I had a problem and even longer to tell all that I had been doing to my wife and family 

 
Posted : 23rd June 2022 3:49 am
(@chris-2808)
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@si_mon @si_mon wasn’t easy coming clean was possibly one of the hardest things I’ve had to do but once I did the relief that I felt and the weight lifted was a great feeling itself I’m still in early stages of stopping I’m on week 2 of my journey and like you I am using Gamstop and Gamban I’m still lucky to have a wife who is supporting me through this but having people to talk to that are going through the same as myself is that bit better support that is needed 

 
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