Hi
first time posting and am sure will have loads of questions but first one.....I confronted my partner again earlier this week and we are yet to have a full conversation. I am so tired of the lies. I want to ask him to login to all his online accounts and show me past transactions and not having ever had an account I don’t know if the online accounts will show past transactions or not. I fully anticipate him saying that they don’t to fob me off but I just wondered if you could help here as if I know they do before I ask it will help. Sorry. Rambling
thank you ?
Hi klg74 what a question! You know he's gambling, what do you want proof or evidence for? This is all a game they/ we play. It is of no consequence how much, when. This is about mental health and addiction. If your partner is a compulsive gambler he will lie, show you what he wants you to see. Why do you need proof? It's not about punishment or helping with debt. It's about emotional support and acknowledging the problem. Then you can seek the relevant help. If he doesn't want to show you he won't. Then what will you do?
There is no quick question, no quick fix.
on my online bank account it goes back four years
Hiya KLG74,
I am also a f&f of a CG... When i logged into Other Half's accounts, they generally went back far enough for me to get a clear picture. I will be honest, I looked to show him the figures and see them black and white, but frankly, it doesn't change that much.... If you know, you know....
I wish you the best of luck on this Journey!
TOHOT x
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