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Merry go round

Member since:
08.06.2017

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Wife of a compulsive gambler

Date Post
17-12-2017 Resistance is futile! Focussing on the money, you're looking in the wrong place. Acceptance is key. …
17-12-2017 Hi clueless waiting for counselling is not stopping gambling. He needs to show you he's stopping, be…
16-12-2017 Hi Lottie I'm so sorry to read your story, I'm shocked. My first reaction is why are you paying his …
16-12-2017 Thankyou P_K. Control is on my mind. Why do we want to control others? Why do we feel someone is try…
16-12-2017 Hi michdan 'what's the point?' The point is you want to stop gambling and if you really do you will …
16-12-2017 Hi Stephen your count says 30 days. That flew by. I do hope you're feeling better. My cg fell off hi…
16-12-2017 Hi hays I'm so sorry that your wife is unable to support you through this. Making rash decisions is …
14-12-2017 I've been thinking about realisation. When do we realise this is an addiction? When do we realise th…
14-12-2017 Hi Duncan mac your diary is like a book to read. I imagine Irish wolf hounds and long tree lined wal…
14-12-2017 Hi I'm pleased your reaching out for help. Please hand over all finance to your wife. Make sure that…
13-12-2017 Hi this is just my opinion but he still has to contribute to bills. His debt comes last. I am a cyni…
13-12-2017 Hi I haven't posted for a week or so. I looked at coda CW but as I'm doing gamanon and counselling i…
13-12-2017 Hi clueless sorry to see you here. In reading your post you said 'I thought he had kicked his habit'…
13-12-2017 Hi lei cee software blocks are apps that you download to devises. I'm not an expert, my husband used…
12-12-2017 Hi lei cee I'm glad you found the forum and are seeking support. You are entitled to have feelings a…
12-12-2017 He geebers, we live just for today. It makes everything more manageable. This is progressive and oft…
11-12-2017 Hi geebers how good to see you looking for help and info. Please don't make the mistake of paying hi…
11-12-2017 Hi jazzmax you take me right back to the beginning, remembering times of despair. I had one child, t…
10-12-2017 Hi jo please get some proper advice regarding debt. Stepchange, debt camel, citizens advice. Calling…
10-12-2017 Hi jazzmax no one can really comment on how you feel or what to do regarding your relationship. Ther…
07-12-2017 Hi cg-rambler your gf can ring the gamcare number and talk to someone. She can also look at gamanon.…
07-12-2017 Hi cg-rambling it's a learning curve and if you've recognised things that's good. Does your gf seek …
07-12-2017 Hi holly your counselling will help you get rid of those thoughts. You're going in the right directi…
06-12-2017 Hi holly no one would judge you or disagree with your decisions. You've been very brave to make that…
06-12-2017 Hi horall that's a major step. Admitting the problem and honesty. Make sure all blocks are in place.…
05-12-2017 Hi BW everyone deserves to be happy. Who cares why you did it. just for today. Today is the only day…
05-12-2017 Hi jazzmax. There have been questions about this before. What do you do? You are still in early stag…
05-12-2017 Hi no more, I'm sure you're reeling from all of this. He's a desperate man and not in his right mind…
04-12-2017 Hey Stephen take it easy and get better. Look after yourself! …
04-12-2017 Hi hays it's a real shock for partners and it takes a really long time to get over it. Everything yo…
03-12-2017 Hi smithben so sorry you're here. Yes there are others just like you. So you are right not to believ…
03-12-2017 Hi muststop the point of the question is to make you look at your behaviour. If we tell you what we …
03-12-2017 Thanks Sandra. Oh my goodness, emotions have a lot to answer for. Counselling is helping but painful…
03-12-2017 Hi mumofboys, I'm sorry to see you still continuing. You need to start making some really hard decis…
03-12-2017 Watch this, it shows you how a slot machine is designed to train your brain to think you will win. B…
02-12-2017 Hi Lucy call gamcare, stepchange. If you are going to be evicted you need to act. He's pushing you a…
02-12-2017 Hi render I'm wife of a compulsive gambler so my view is from the other side. You are in need of rea…
30-11-2017 Hi Holly I'm sorry to see you here and the effect being involved with a cg has had on you. I'm wife …
30-11-2017 Hi SJB, I feel like that sometimes. Emotion overtakes when you revisit. Hope you're ok.  …
29-11-2017 Nothing will stop a cg unless they have no more access to money. Most people cg, wives, partners, pa…
29-11-2017 Hi jazzmax, as joydivider says we are not financial experts. Debt camel is apparently a good website…
29-11-2017 Hi I've been thinking about your post since I read it yesterday. The thing that  springs to mind is…
28-11-2017 Hi helpless, no shouting that's good. Anger drives them back. Calm, structure, plan. Meetings, no ex…
28-11-2017 Hi jazzmax! It's a shame to see you here and hear the turmoil you're in. I think you should call gam…
27-11-2017 Hi Callum yes you've got a problem you are here. You are not leaving a casino with winnings just ang…
26-11-2017 Hi helpless an addict is always an addict. It will never go away. He has to take ownership and activ…
26-11-2017 Hi helpless, this is not your fault. As you say she willingly gave her details. She needs help too. …
26-11-2017 Hi EW and Helpless. As Odaat says a gamanon meeting is the best place to really learn. I'm wife of c…
25-11-2017 I thought it made sense SJB, from my counselling session I learnt it's them not me. I'm going becaus…
25-11-2017 Hi stuck. I hate to read these stories, I'm so sorry for the hurt and damage gambling does. This is …

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03-11-2017 New topic
16-10-2017 Research please help
27-08-2017 Monte Carlo or bust?
25-08-2017 Where do I belong
09-06-2017 Help to get strong