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Merry go round

Member since:
08.06.2017

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Wife of a compulsive gambler

Date Post
21-10-2017 Hi try not to worry about him, ga is great, control of finance is good. As long as he sticks to it, …
21-10-2017 Hi pickle sounds like my cg before he gave up drinking. Yes addictive personality but also hiding fr…
21-10-2017 Hi pickle I don't have that problem. My cg is a very solitary man, family is his priority. If you ha…
21-10-2017 Hi Nikki when they were younger they didn't know. As they got older I told them not to give daddy mo…
21-10-2017 Hi pickle have you had any counselling from gamcare? I would call them, talk. It takes a long time f…
20-10-2017 Hi Nikki we've been together 21 years, married 18. Children are 17  & 15. I knew he gambled whe…
20-10-2017 Hi red rock, I stayed initially because I thought it would stop. Didn't really understand that it ha…
20-10-2017 Cider vinegar and honey for a cough, feel maybe a cold coming which I hate. Probably as a result of …
20-10-2017 Hi Nikki I started writing last night and then didn't post. I started exactly the same as red rock '…
19-10-2017 Hi Chris I'm wife of cg. Get some support by calling gamcare. Maybe your gp, you've got a lot going …
18-10-2017 Hi, I did the survey for f&f. Really interesting, I hope it helps too. Thought provoking! …
18-10-2017 Hi Matt thx, I'm talking about my meeting and you can't talk about it, what's in the room stays ther…
18-10-2017 Hi xenedra maybe call your provider and ask for them to block this stuff and report it. The amount i…
18-10-2017 I'm having a really bad few days. I feel people 'shut me down' verbally. It's almost like a book bei…
16-10-2017 Hi Stephen glad you're better. George Michael documentary on tonight channel 4, there will be lots o…
16-10-2017 Hi Nikki I trusted my husband and it ended badly. He doesn't want anything to do with money, which i…
16-10-2017 There are many things I want to say but on looking at responses it seems many don't  listen, take o…
14-10-2017 Hi you can still get him to shop, give him cash and you want receipts. Don't take on everything and …
14-10-2017 Hi l totally understand why you've done things financially. I understand you want to maintain family…
14-10-2017 Hi fi, the first thing is dont give him your card, ever. I think you should warn his mum and sister,…
14-10-2017 Watch it! …
14-10-2017 Hi podge it can only destroy you if you let it. Watch the documentary under ' watch this if you're …
14-10-2017 Hi look to the future. Odaat and smashed are right. I can't believe gamcare can't talk on the phone.…
14-10-2017 Hi fi85 sorry to see you here, but it's good you are. Learn as much as you can from here and others.…
13-10-2017 I read posts, threads, diaries and books. As I've said before taking something or nothing from any o…
12-10-2017 Hi Sam see how it goes. I had all the finance thought all was fine, my cg stopped meetings after a y…
12-10-2017 Hi Sam good for you seeking help and not listening to him. If he's not addicted why was it secret? I…
12-10-2017 Don't be sorry …
12-10-2017 Omg what a question. To be frank I can't remember. Thanks Stephen. Sometimes I feel like 'writing ' …
12-10-2017 Hi Becki just to clarify gamanon is for you, family and friends. GA is where he should be going. I'm…
11-10-2017 Putting it back to the top …
11-10-2017 I don't like it when people disappear. It really bugs me when people just come to one meeting. I've …
11-10-2017 Hi velvet, I saw you on the other page too. Anyway I'm wife of cg and advice is nothing joint. Pay y…
11-10-2017 Hi Mel a nie, you could go to meetings. Go to one where GA and gamanon together. You could have coup…
11-10-2017 Hi Bobbi I don't think that's fraud?! Anyway credit cards debt is ridiculously expensive, high inter…
11-10-2017 Hi lml I'm wife of cg and I handle all finance. I was clueless, I had no idea he could still get loa…
11-10-2017 Hi cydney I'm wife of cg. I would suggest asking someone to look after your finances. Or cancel cred…
10-10-2017 Hi pj as Lethe says, stop now while you can. Retrain your brain to do something else. It will ruin y…
10-10-2017 Hi ch yes if she is willing. It takes temptation away, plus you can see what's going on. My husband …
10-10-2017 Hi Bobbi don't feel stupid. It's very difficult to say no, but you must. Nothing will change unless …
10-10-2017 Hi becki unfortunately this is forever, keep your eyes open, be vigilant. Compulsive gamblers are gr…
10-10-2017 It's all bureaucracy, governments make so much money from gambling. It's replaced alcohol and cigare…
10-10-2017 Hi becki what a shock. Call gamcare and get advice and support. Priority is you and your daughter. P…
10-10-2017 Hi ch  as Cathy says find a meeting. Call gamcare too. We are powerless. The only thing you can do …
09-10-2017 You're welcome Joan! Just saying how I feel and think. So if you want debate go to that section. My …
09-10-2017 Hi I wonder why. I just want to say something, even with financial control cgs can still gamble. Sel…
09-10-2017 Hi Karen, that's a lot of stuff to deal with. If you can maybe try and get an appointment with his d…
08-10-2017 Thanks Stephen. I just watched the 2 Vimeo by herb. Interesting. I did psychology at college so pavl…
08-10-2017 Thanks Stephen. Round of applause! …
07-10-2017 Joy divider I'm going to clarify. I posted this initially 25/8. I'm sorry I just went back and rerea…

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Date Threads
16-10-2017 Research please help
27-08-2017 Monte Carlo or bust?
25-08-2017 Where do I belong
09-06-2017 Help to get strong