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Merry go round

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08.06.2017

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Wife of a compulsive gambler

Date Post
21-06-2018 Take your girlfriend out of the equation. You've told someone, the priest. As I say this isn't about…
21-06-2018 Hi Ellie you are in total shock! gambling  to that extent has definitely affected his mental health…
20-06-2018 That's great, now you will get strong. Better or worse is irrelevant it's an emotional illness, amou…
20-06-2018 Oh Ellie, you sound just like me. I remember sitting in the building society remortgaging when my yo…
20-06-2018 Tommy this is support, whether you agree or not. You are using the telling of your addiction to your…
20-06-2018 Good luck Amanda! I hope the judge or whoever decides understands what compulsive gambling actually …
19-06-2018 Hi dan don't forget to live life too. Too much stress is not good.  …
19-06-2018 Hi bedo88 it's good to see you taking things seriously and going to a meeting. The best thing to do …
18-06-2018 Hi I'm guessing you're in Australia. I don't know if they have GA. Don't think it's easy. It's diffi…
18-06-2018 The key here that has been said is you are not ready. It's all excuses. Your confession will not sto…
18-06-2018 Hi anon if you want real life support get yourself to a gamanon meeting. Really it will help. Please…
17-06-2018 Hi Sarah you've done what most of us do, try and help. Believed them when they say never again. Unfo…
17-06-2018 Hi anon I'm sorry to see you here. This isn't your fault. You need to get a plan together. List the …
15-06-2018 Hi Dylan you need to start a new topic for yourself, maybe new members section. Bottom of page is 'n…
15-06-2018 Hi you said you were stressed. A trigger maybe? Start again, it's great you came here and wrote it d…
15-06-2018 Hi all gamblers when they first stop or get found out say it won't happen again. In my experience he…
12-06-2018 Hi green flash yes. I feel like that no one hears, listens, slips, relapse. But the thing you have t…
12-06-2018 Hi jodcon no you're not crazy. A gambler blames everyone but themselves. They don't want to spend mo…
12-06-2018 Hi tommy I completely understand you don't want to spoil her view of you. You don't want to spoil he…
11-06-2018 Hi feeling lost, yes you can, but you have to get help for both of you. That can come in many forms.…
11-06-2018 I've got Jesse j going round in my head 'it's all about the money, money, money, we don't need your …
11-06-2018 Hi KTF do you think if he knew the people on here he wouldn't do it? All the kids that don't know th…
11-06-2018 Hi I know you don't like what I say but here it is. The only person who can stop is you. It makes no…
10-06-2018 Hi worried, you need help too. It's impossible to keep lying to everyone and not admitting that your…
10-06-2018 Hi worried, my first thing is to get help for you. He's still playing so it's pointless talking to h…
08-06-2018 Hi mallard is there a gamanon meeting with your GA meeting? She would be able to get support there. …
08-06-2018 Hi cup half full my gut would tell me to close that account completely. He will know the number. The…
08-06-2018 Hi Chris unfortunately you can't make him go if he chooses not to. I agree about the advertising but…
07-06-2018 Hi wonga get to a GA meeting asap. If you really want help it's there. No excuses go. Call gamcare a…
07-06-2018 Hi Viking gal the best things to do is to surrender. You can't win, gambling isn't a method of incom…
06-06-2018 Hi sunshine I went back to your original post to see the advice given and your story. Did you get an…
06-06-2018 Hi Simon getting a loan is the same as a bailout. A debt is great reminder to a compulsive gambler o…
05-06-2018 Hi ric my husband gambled our money for our wedding, lied to me. I didn't find out until about 4 yea…
04-06-2018 Hi losing colour hindsight is a wonderful thing, but not helpful! If only! I'm wife of a cg, so I kn…
03-06-2018 Hi lost, you find a way because you want to. Get to GA, get well, get support. Choose not to gamble …
03-06-2018 Hi Simon I'm going to sound really harsh. Do not let your mother sell her house. Don't be fooled by …
03-06-2018 Hi girl80, I'm always sorry to see addiction winning. I'm sorry you feel the way you do. If you've r…
03-06-2018 Hi BW you ok? …
03-06-2018 Hi worrieddotcom a sad story for you all. Cathy is right in an addict is the only one who can stop. …
03-06-2018 Hi moon, it's a shame to see you here embroiled in this problem. A gambler will stop when he wants t…
01-06-2018 Hi RLL firstly don't let this set you back. We've all made mistakes, felt like we should have kept t…
01-06-2018 Hi that's just how my husband was. The gp may be the best place if it continues. Now you need to fil…
31-05-2018 Hi Leeds fan I read the whole way through your thread and was so pleased you'd found the courage to …
30-05-2018 Hi Stephen hope you're ok wherever you are.                             I wanted to wr…
30-05-2018 Hi Leah if someone told you that in that room was the answer would you go? If your life depended on …
30-05-2018 Hi Bambi the best thing is you knew what to do, didn't keep going on and on. It's not easy.  …
29-05-2018 Hi Lisa if you are facing prosecution from your employer and do end up in court, it is advisable to …
29-05-2018 Hi LPL can you ask your parents to help you manage your money? You don't have to tell them initially…
29-05-2018 Hi clover you're In the right place. Just continue on this section in the comment box with your stor…
28-05-2018 Hi A it's such a shame to read this. It doesn't matter how much heartache or loss their is, the acti…

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Date Threads
20-06-2018 Advertising of gambling
11-05-2018 Alert a moderator
03-11-2017 New topic
16-10-2017 Research please help
27-08-2017 Monte Carlo or bust?
25-08-2017 Where do I belong
09-06-2017 Help to get strong