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Joydivider

Member since:
11.03.2015

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I haven't gambled for

938

days

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21-07-2018 Hi Ksc. Welcome and well done for coming on here. I am well aware what a gambling addiction is all a…
15-07-2018 Yes it is a lie and the addiction develops on the feeling of playing. They have bottled the feeling …
14-07-2018 Hi Lonelyirl2016. Dont be too hard on yourself that you have let others down as the addiction didnt …
30-06-2018 I find it interesting that I look upon sports betting as non machine players would view the fruit ma…
20-06-2018 Hi FM79. What you have written is a textbook example of how a gambling addiction starts and a very i…
18-06-2018 [quote=tommyb]I don't think yous understand what I'm saying. It's her birthday at the start of July …
14-06-2018 Hi None of us are really idiots or just silly with greed. It can appear that way to people who dont …
12-06-2018 Hi Dmpowell81 If you are in the right frame of mind and ready you should feel some relief that someb…
11-06-2018 Hi you should feel some sense of relief that you are handing your money over and that is a sign that…
11-06-2018 Tommy B. At this moment in time you are not ready becuase you are an addict in the grip of it. You k…
09-06-2018 Thats good Lindsay25. Focus on that shame and anger. They were never your friends and they were sell…
09-06-2018 This is a difficult one because I know offices and I know work "colleagues" can be very funny about …
09-06-2018 Hi Yes I know what you mean and in that sense its the people who took all my money regulating their …
08-06-2018 Going back to your post tommyb you mention so much debt. The main thing is that you are ready to sto…
06-06-2018 Hi LF333. I wouldnt be too hard on yourself as I believe all compulsive gamblers were one short step…
04-06-2018 A good post and you are right nipped. The biggy is coming in terms of recession because the economy…
04-06-2018 Hi Valdab. I want to step this up in a way by saying a gambling addiction is a drug addiction and yo…
31-05-2018 Yes its a difficult one to advise you on. Its your decision. I am saying its best if you can be read…
30-05-2018 Hi Its a difficult one mickypitt as few people blurt everything out early in the relationship and yo…
30-05-2018 Good! Im very glad to see that. It can be beaten when you mean business in dealing with it. Thats th…
25-05-2018   [/quote] To be as close to death without dying is often where we wanted to be. [/quote] That a ve…
24-05-2018 .......sorry duplicated post …
24-05-2018 I agree with you Lethe. There is way way more chance if me dying in a road accident on the way to bu…
23-05-2018 I think the dangerous thing about the lottery is that it seems the one thing that gives the green l…
22-05-2018 Any delays in implementing it are a disgrace....they really dont care and thats my overwhelming feel…
22-05-2018 Hi megpreston. What do I do is a good question and Im going to be deadly serious about living with a…
22-05-2018 Hi Mark and welcome. There is a known stage where you know you must stop but are not fully ready to …
19-05-2018 Tommyb You are where I was when joining the forum. It took me 10 months to really do something prope…
17-05-2018 Yes I have no time for the counter argument. As far as I am concerned the bookies including the coun…
17-05-2018 Hi RyanB and welcome to the forum. Yes its firmly linked to anxiety, stress and depresssion and it w…
16-05-2018 Im very sorry to see this CW22. I know how much you care about him and how hard this is for you. My …
16-05-2018 You can stop 3CP when you say no more and back it up with blocks help and support. Youve seen what i…
16-05-2018 Hi jardenblack26. Loneliness was also one of the main reasons I gambled. I have felt a degree of lon…
15-05-2018 Yes  I think the challenges should have a special section with maybe a structure of  a 2018 challe…
14-05-2018 Hi Babygirl. I hope you will consider telling people close sooner rather than later because the addi…
14-05-2018 Thats alright. I try my best to help people here and Im not trying to shock you for the sake of it. …
13-05-2018 Hi mwh022. Welcome to the forum. A gambling addiction is based on a mind control and denial from sta…
12-05-2018 Hi steph92. I hope that you will get financial advice from someone like the Citizens Advice Bureau. …
11-05-2018 Hi Hardly27. Recovery should not be seen as the scary part of this. The scary part was when we were …
11-05-2018 Hi tommyb It cant really be done with willpower alone especially in the early stages. If you have le…
08-05-2018 Yes I feel that it is about triggers and we have to apply some common sense theory to this. I didnt …
06-05-2018 Hi Tommyb. There is a point where it must be faced because continuing to live a lie will drag you do…
04-05-2018 Yes Thanks Mixer. You know what its all about. I wouldnt dream of regularly paying a tenner for a ca…
03-05-2018 It makes no real difference. I could get through £2 a minute on 20p stakes and thats being conserva…
03-05-2018 Yes I agree it can seem over the top to talk about the cake raffle but it is an interesting debate b…
01-05-2018 A great post from PositiveAction. There is no told you so and no satisfaction on any level. I simply…
28-04-2018 Ive thought a lot about this and Ive been a credit controller. The money has to be put behind us and…
28-04-2018 Hi sfc7603. I feel you have hit on the most important and deep point about why we gambled and how we…
27-04-2018 I started on fruit machines when I was twelve. I dont know if that was considered underage at the ti…
27-04-2018 We wont abandon you here one punch but you need to be honest with the people around you if you conti…

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