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Goodbye my husband

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06.08.2017

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Wife of an addict

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01-09-2017 It's easy to give advice but I can see how painful this must be for you. Taking gambling out of the …
01-09-2017 Hi Tb1010 You should be so proud of yourself for opening up to your loved ones. It proves that you r…
31-08-2017 Hi Xanedra ive read many of your posts but have been caught up in my own gambling despair (wife of )…
31-08-2017 Hi Sara i am in the same position as you and looktothefuture, it's devastating and no one really und…
29-08-2017 Hi there feelingdefeated I think I know how you feel. I've been with my husband for 23 years, marrie…
29-08-2017 I will start a new thread in family and friends entitled "Husband and in-laws reaction to the hurt h…
29-08-2017 Hey it's good to see a non-cg in the diaries....and why not??? Writing is a huge release for me, ram…
29-08-2017 Hi there Well it has been a few days/ week possibly,  since I logged on here.  Homelife has been c…
23-08-2017 Yes if you can say hand on heart that you are happy and enjoying your life to the full. Yes if you l…
23-08-2017 Hi ally 1981 Gambling kills there is no doubt about it. Not always (although we here of many) in the…
22-08-2017 Hi bstep i will respond in full later, from your posts it sounds as though you and I have lots in co…
22-08-2017 Please, please if you are a gambling addict and are thinking of gambling today then don't. Love your…
22-08-2017 Just reading back over old posts I've written, always using humour and jokes to cover up just how **…
21-08-2017 Is that just a thing with addicts, that they need to spend money. I cleaned the cupboards out yester…
21-08-2017 Hi Dan Me and my insomnia eh?  Just reading your other post about your marriage problems. Totally s…
21-08-2017 This conversation I had with his sister last Christmas might just highlight the sort of person she i…
21-08-2017 A huge thank you to all of you for some great advice. I have to admit I was worried about posting as…
21-08-2017 A fantastic topic to raise Alan!!! The answer is unequivocally the lies, deceit and total breakdown …
20-08-2017 I am so angry!!!!  How shall I respond to her message? 1) Thank you for all your help. 2) The child…
20-08-2017 Hi there Out of bed for the first time yesterday, still feeling lousy and so down/black I think I've…
17-08-2017 Alan 135, Compulsive Gambler and ODAAT (on hols at mo) are all great people to offer support. All po…
17-08-2017 Coakley Its funny how two people can be awake at 3am caused by the evil treachery of gambling, you a…
16-08-2017 Well done Dan. I love what you write at the end of each post "today I will choose not to gamble" It …
16-08-2017 Hi Xenedra I'm afraid I am not the best person to advise you as I am merely the wife of a compulsive…
16-08-2017 Well done Gazza! It's great to read some of the success stories on here. You're doing brilliantly! I…
16-08-2017 I have realised that my posts sound like an exhaustive list of feeling sorry for myself. I hope I do…
16-08-2017 Thank you Mikey i can't pretend to understand your addiction but you are doing everything you can to…
16-08-2017 Sorry! The other posts weren't on my screen when I sent that so thank you to you all. I am very incl…
16-08-2017 I know what you are saying compulsive gambler, about prioritising etc but looking around at the grub…
16-08-2017 Having read over and over the lengths that we must go to to support cg's. Do any of you ever ask you…
16-08-2017 Good morning to you all. Sadly I am feeling absolutely awful still. I can't believe a chest infectio…
16-08-2017 Mikey huge congratulations to you!!! What a fantastic achievement!!! I am the wife of an addict but …
16-08-2017 I have to agree with Merry go round. Also wife of an addict I can absolutely promise you that tellin…
15-08-2017 Compulsive Gambler you are dead right. When I wake during the night I reach for this site as a comfo…
15-08-2017 Thank you Proud Arab and Bal. My husband definitely does not want to stop gambling and never will. I…
15-08-2017 I would like to add something about hypnotherapy and hopefully I won't be laughed at. I am the wife …
15-08-2017 Hi Problem Gambler Do you mind if I ask you a couple of things? Really trying to answer the above ti…
14-08-2017 Hello and thank you once again.  Kelly and MerryGo Round I have sorted emails out, thank you both a…
14-08-2017 Hey guys! All three of you are incredible for admitting you have a problem. It's a huge step, but yo…
14-08-2017   Hello Pot_23 in your opening long post I picked out the below two quotes  "There has been numero…
14-08-2017 Thank you Kelly! I wasn't in the slightest offended and everything you say is right about earing, dr…
14-08-2017 Thank you so much for all your support. I am truly grateful for this site.  God did I really say "w…
12-08-2017 Odaat can I ask you something without offending please? You said he's an **** (totally true) and kno…
11-08-2017 Cajetan. I absolutely agree 100% with the advice given above about coming clean and telling your boy…
11-08-2017 I have had the most awful meltdown, shouting and screaming at my kids, cutting the plug off TV and s…
10-08-2017 I'm interested to know unnecessary lying is normal for addicts? I'm not talking about lying to cover…
10-08-2017 I am sorry you have received some worrying financial news. I know this is going to sound weird but t…
10-08-2017 Jimmy boy you are here and that in itself is a massive step forward. I am the wife of a compulsive g…
10-08-2017 John you say you are 40.....that is young! You have your whole life ahead of you. My husband is 61 a…
10-08-2017 Thange I can completely understand you being in denial. When I look back now I think there were defi…

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