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cardhue

Member since:
18.01.2013

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I haven't gambled for

1921

days

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21-05-2018 Yeah the embarassment and shame around telling parents can feel overwhelming. Telling my dad felt li…
20-05-2018 Sorry one other point. And I think this is an important one, and one I've raised elsewhere before. I…
20-05-2018 Dan I'm just pointing out the elephant in the room.Is my comment really not constructive - or is it …
20-05-2018 Well ok you can say that there should be better information or support. But IMO the real issue here …
19-05-2018 People say we make up any excuse in order to gamble. Nah - We make up any excuse AND gamble. Not TO …
19-05-2018 So are you just good old fashioned lying to your parents to get money?  Louis …
18-05-2018 [quote=Phil83] It sounds promising but I can hear the sound of bank notes being stuffed into brown e…
11-05-2018 Dude As feelings fade you won't be able to 'recall' the negative feelings of despair etc, should you…
09-05-2018 You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear …
04-05-2018 This has more than a whiff of moral panic. 1. If your child is programmed to enter a world of gambli…
30-04-2018 [quote=Phil72] Personally I prefer approaches based on more modern methods such as cognitive behavou…
29-04-2018 Gambling surely involves games of chance. A competition which requires skill/knowledge is different.…
28-04-2018 Zero tolerance towards gambling. But a pub quiz isn't gambling …
27-04-2018 Great to hear you're going to tell. That IS a proper positive step. Rooting for you. Let us know how…
23-04-2018 Something seemed odd about this post and so I looked at some of the multiple threads you've previous…
24-03-2018 Hi JD I respectfully disagree that I'm over-worrying. Now that I've acknowledged this addiction and …
23-03-2018 Thanks jd and Dan. I work 4 days a week so that I can look after my son. This is something I value h…
21-03-2018 Being healthy is mega important. But I guess there's an analogy to having a perfectly tuned sports c…
20-03-2018 How is the alcohol issue going? Fair play in addressing this. I have certainly used alcohol as a 'so…
19-03-2018 Mind boggling how undemocratic this is. The arguments are- It will lose jobs. Well tough she'ite. Yo…
15-03-2018 Hi PA That's a joke re the football team. Do they think they're Real ffs! Must be hard seeing your s…
15-03-2018 Fair do's but you're still not REALLY addressing the 'why'. This is understanding addiction at a neu…
06-03-2018 Yeah I can see why you're alarmed, scared at a near miss. That horrible out of control experience. B…
06-03-2018 You can't control your thoughts. They just arise in consciousness. You certainly shouldn't punish yo…
28-02-2018 Hi Lizzy Sounds like a variation of the 'not good enough story'. Perfectionism, imposter syndrome. I…
18-02-2018 [quote=tara2] Another thought about the brain.  Lol THOUGHT about the brain.  My brain needs and l…
09-02-2018 Hi Paul Not had time to catch up properly with yr diary but I do like #1274 Hope all's well. Am leav…
09-02-2018 Back from a self imposed exile of 5 months. Accepted that my activity on here was, itself, compulsiv…
28-08-2017 [quote=Mixer] Hi Cardhue, Thank you for your comments, and, as I wrote in response to Robf's latest …
27-08-2017 Yes, I would agee with both of you. From personal experience and from what I can tell of others, add…
25-08-2017 [quote=ALAN 135] Hi rob . I think it was pretty obvious from your first post on here that you didn't…
24-08-2017 One of the things that I think would surprise non CGs is the drudgery of addiction and how far remov…
24-08-2017 Howdy Judy Nice post. I agree sort of, distraction is distraction. It's all avoidance and what are w…
23-08-2017 It's probably not helpful for others, or youself, to define you as a 'bad person'. That's a pretty b…
22-08-2017 It seems like you're really caught up in a (brutal) world of judgements. Everywhere you look you are…
19-08-2017 By all means have a £1 jar but know that money will not make you happy or lead a fulfilling life. F…
17-08-2017 It seems clear from your detailed and candid post that you have serious psychological difficulties t…
16-08-2017 [quote=ItMattersMoreWhenTheresNoMoneyOnIt]Just to throw another spanner in the works it could be arg…
15-08-2017 JD - I would say that some of your examples above, eg 'not rocking the boat' and 'not looking the od…
14-08-2017 I'm also not sure that 'not lying' would make you unpopular fast. Don't we all know someone that we …
14-08-2017 But one of the points is that a white lie is only 'white' in the eyes of the person lying. I think i…
14-08-2017 [quote=Sars27] Bye ;) there's a book for sale on amazon I think it would help you . Since you love g…
14-08-2017 [quote=Sars27] Bye ;) there's a book for sale on amazon I think it would help you . Since you love g…
14-08-2017 [quote=Sars27] You're obviously butt hurt by my post as you and your crew once attacked Phil a coupl…
14-08-2017 With reference to your personal post about me on Phil 72's diary...let's start by being clear that y…
14-08-2017 Thanks for the article link Gem1209. It really highlights how far down the wild west route we've gon…
14-08-2017 Gem1209 agree with some of what you say but fairly sure your main point is simply wrong. FOBTs preva…
14-08-2017 Thanks for your kind post Alan. I still get some fear when I first notice you've posted on my diary…
14-08-2017 Hi stranger My initial thought, in response to your recent direct posting style was 'hope you're ok,…
14-08-2017 Thanks Alan, Rob and Paul, I appreciate each of your posts. Feels good breaking my moderation seal. …

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